Chelsie Diadhiou is a New York based writer, editor, and mother on a mission to inspire women to use their innate power to consciously create dynamic lives. From motherhood and sexuality, to lifestyle and culture, she explores various themes in her quest to stimulate thought provoking discussion about what it means to be a woman in today’s world. Her philosophy is that everything a woman does must come from a space deep within.
“An evolved woman wants a man who is ready to grow with her.”
We have come a long way since the days of our grandmothers.
For these women, marriage and family were the primary goals in life and they often settled for the first man that came along.
Nowadays, women want more out of life – and love!
Over the last few generations, women have made great strides in the world, including their careers and their relationships.
The women’s liberation movement sought to level the playing field in the work place and society in general. As a result, today women are confidently handling both their finances and matters of the heart!
“No longer are we content to settle when it comes to the kind of relationships we desire..”
..nor are we willing to stay in relationships where we are unhappy.
I guess you could say we have evolved!
6 Things A Highly Evolved Woman Wants From A Man
So let’s explore what an evolved woman wants from a man.
#1 She Wants Him To Be Confident
An evolved woman wants a man whose power is sourced from within, and who relies only on his own merits and has confidence in his innate gifts.
“She is not impressed by his fancy clothes, flashy car, or the number of zeros in his bank account.”
Some men confuse confidence with cockiness and arrogance, but that is actually a turn off for an evolved woman.
What turns her all the way on is a man who is sure of himself and his abilities, and is grounded in his Divine masculine power!
“Nothing is sexier and more of a turn on to a conscious, evolved woman than a truly confident man.”
The path to intimacy begins in the heart, and that requires surrender to vulnerability.
“An evolved woman wants a man who understands that intimacy is more than just sex.”
In order to truly love a man, a woman must feel and know his heart.
This can be an issue because boys are often raised to see vulnerability as a weakness (nothing could be further from the truth).
As a result, they grow up to become men who guard their hearts, closing them off from experiencing full and deep intimacy.
Vulnerability requires a great deal of courage (a masculine attribute), which comes from the Latin word ‘cor,’ meaning heart. Contrary to popular belief, the courage to live (and act) from the heart is a sign of bravery and masculinity.
And there is nothing an evolved woman loves more than a masculine man!
#6 She Wants Him Committed – To Himself And To Her
Most women want a commitment. However, the key to a lasting commitment is, first and foremost, a commitment to oneself. A consciously evolved woman wants a man who isn’t afraid to commit – to life or to love.
“A commitment to his own growth and evolution ensures that he will support and encourage hers.”
She wants a man who is committed first to himself, then to her!
She Wants To Evolve With Her Man
Personal growth and self-development are of primary importance to an evolved woman. She seeks to grow mentally, spiritually, and personally – in life and in love – and she wants a partner who is ready to grow alongside her.
What her heart desires most is an equally evolved man.
What an evolved woman wants most of all is to continue to evolve – with her man.
By Chelsie Diadhiou | Featured Artist: Rolf Armstrong