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A Woman’s Guide To Penis Worship

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"The Passionate Wife" is an unapologetic sexual and sensual enthusiast, an advocate of pleasure and eroticism and of course, a very passionate wife.

 “A man’s penis is truly the key to his heart. Loving it will create a deep emotional bond between the two of you.”

There are women who see the penis as nothing more than an ugly, protruding dumb stick that men love and obsess over; robbing them of their capacity for reason and often getting them into trouble.
And then there are those women who see the penis in all its sensual glory; a love shaft of pure pleasure so hot that it can only be quenched by her mouth, vulva or back door. Which woman are you?

Do you look upon your man’s most prized possession as something to tolerate or even avoid or do you see his magnificent member as something that can fill you with desire and trigger your deepest hungers?

Do you see his throbbing manhood as something that can penetrate you with sweet, unbearable pleasure until your toes curl and your body shudders? Can you learn to love his penis as much as he does?

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A man’s penis is truly the key to his heart. Unlike a woman’s sexuality – which encompasses her entire body and is at least as emotional as it is physical – a man’s sexuality is centered in this one physical organ.

Loving it, touching it, placing it in your mouth and other body parts will not only please him physically, it will create a deep emotional bond between the two of you as well. If you are unsure about the best way to embrace the wonder and beauty of your man’s virile rod of masculinity here are a few suggestions:

How To Worship Your Man’s Penis

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#1 Slowly Remove Your Partner’s Clothes

At your next lovemaking session, slowly remove your partner’s clothes. When he is naked, show your admiration for his manhood by kissing it first; even before you kiss his mouth. Give it a quick lick before kissing and licking seductively to other parts of his body. This will gradually initiate your guy into full-body eroticism.

#2 Be Enthusiastic

Anytime you perform a hand or blow job, do it with enthusiasm. Use words or sounds to indicate your enjoyment.

#3 Compliment His Penis

Consider sending your guy a sexy text complimenting his penis. You can text something like, “I can’t stop thinking about your penis. If you were here now I would…” It will definitely make his day!

#4 Be Honest & Sincere

Be generous with compliments when having sex but always be honest and sincere. Say only the things you really feel. Remember, people have a sixth sense for words that come form the heart.

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#5 Receive It With Your Mouth

If you are having trouble developing Penis Lust while performing oral sex, try receiving it with your mouth instead of giving oral sex. Focus on the sensations you feel without worrying about his. Let your tongue and inner lips feel the silkiness of your man’s shaft of love, its swollen ripeness and its heat. Make this as much of a sensual delight for you as it will be for him.

A women who can shift her perspective to embrace penis worship and join her man’s admiration of his glorious manhood will soon discover just what a turn on it can be for both him & her.

So enjoy its power, virility, and potency. Let it intrigue you and astound you. Adore it, caress it, name it, adorn it and swoon over it. When you can see, smell and taste his penis as the love scepter that it is, it will enchant you both. Out of your penis worship and lust you will no doubt discover passionate new ways to pleasure both you and your man…and he will be helplessly smitten.

By Tracey Harper

Artist Featured: Thomas Saliot |Originally posted on The Passionate Wife

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  • unapologetictruth

    Mgtow!

  • Paul Drinkawater

    A great blowjob, like a great restaurant, is never forgotton

  • Candi Phoenix

    How can a woman not love the power that comes with a good blow job. I don’t care if I’m kneeling at that alter, on my back with him over me or my fave, spread out before me like a delicious buffet. It’s intoxicating, the minute you open your moist lips baby you own that castle. While I give much better than I receive, I like to flatten the back of my tongue and fold it around the head and stroke. Not about up and down but rhythm between the tongue and the lips. If a man can stay still or quiet I didn’t do my job. And you can’t just pull of and say you are done, if you don’t want him to finish in your mouth fine use your hand while you devour his balls. Such power…. Love it

  • Alexander Cahoulan

    Im sick of seeing girls talk about sex like they are above certain things. When a girl is away from her friends and all other people, and its just you and her….she turns into a whole different animal. In front of her friends its, “Eww, giving head is grosse…Ewww cum is grosse.” Then when you are all alone and you, as a guy, know what you are doing, girls lose their minds and turn into a whole different animal. They then love sucking cock, and cum. But you need to know what you are doing!! I feel VERY STRONGLY about this because Ive seen girls who say in front of other people, “ewww I hate this/that.” Then when I hooked up with them, and I knew what buttons to press, that same girl LOVED giving me head and loved my cum. Once I stopped that girl mid blowjob and said “I thought you hated giving head and hated cum??!!??” She just shrugged her shoulders and said “ya…I dont know…hahaha.” This has happened to me with almost every girl!!!!! You girls need a man who knows what he’s doing to really get the deep, primal urges to emerge. Its just really annoying to hear girls who have never been with a man who knows what hes doing, seem convinced that they hate giving head and hate cum. They just haven’t had a good partner yet. A guy needs to be confident and do what he wants. Dont always ask, “Are you okay??? Is this OKay??” Just have confidence and do what you want to her. Dont rape her of course, but dont be too gentle and unsure of urself. Its hard to explain but you need to reach deep down into a girl and pull out her DEEP PRIMAL URGES. Its too hard to explain without sounding like a pig. But Ive had many girls and if they are heterosexual…then they have deep seated urges that not all men can find and make blossom.

    • Alex

      Yea dude…it’s all you lol, clown

  • John Dugan

    Men should make an effort to make the penis worthy of worship. Using a first rate penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) to address issues like penis odor, dry/flaky skin, loss of sensation, etc. can help.

    • Nikos Varsos

      Duuude!
      Uncircumcised men don’t need products to keep their penis healthy, a regular shower is more than enough

  • elliefrost

    So men are in love with their penises and woman should be too? What nonsense.

    • Lombardi’s_Hat

      lesbian

  • K-Instinct

    GOD. YES.

    • Nanma Mathram

      will any one do it to mine….? its a lollipop

  • Anna

    I’m glad to see men actually acknowledging that they enjoy more than just attention to their penis. But the thing is, I rarely hear men say that. Most of the time women hear men talking about sex, it’s all about the penis. Most of the boyfriends I’ve had were completely focused on their penis and one even told me not to even bother touching him anywhere else. Everything I’ve seen about male erogenous zones that were created by men, focused solely on the penis. It’s also pretty rare for men to acknowledge that they are interested in emotional and mental connections and stimulation. Quite frankly, most flat out deny it. So this information, that so many of the men commenting are so upset about, originally came from men.

    So my suggestion is, instead of getting so upset and attacking the author of this article, give us more information. Write your own articles, speak out, teach the women in your life, and most importantly stop letting men get away with simplifying sex and degrading men to a single organ. You might also try just commenting in a way that teaches instead of attacks. People tend to be much more open to new information when you aren’t attacking them.

    • canuckpaesano

      Hi Anna. I appreciated your insightful comment. You may be interested in knowing that I am currently writing a book which is a mixture of events loosely based on actual personal experiences, erotic fantasies and dreams I’ve had. The source of inspiration, incidentally, was a random meeting with a young, beautiful, highly intelligent, alpha female at a conference over five years ago. For me, it must be pheromones. How else can I explain my instant, compelling attraction for her? Though there have been a few bumps along the way since, we remain friends.

  • James Stuchbery

    agreed. I cringed when i read that part. very sexist.

  • Gabri Hell

    These men who doesnt liked this text are just left-brained cultural marxists, who think any male pleasure is “machism”; I
    tell for total sure, a man who is sexualy aware, does not feel guilty, insulted or “sexist” for having his lingam worshiped
    by who is special to him – this is tantric and part of male unique way of self-expression.

  • GodProtectAmerica

    I prefer Monkey Sex

  • Alex

    This is just five sentences saying, “Hey ladies- men have penises.” None of this is valid oral sex advice at all. Here’s what I like:
    1) If we’re making out and I’m planking on top of you, reach into my underwear and give me a twisting handjob. Once I get half-hard I’ll be horny enough to go down on you until you make me stop.
    2) If I spend 45 minutes going down on you, even if you didn’t like it, it’d be real great if you reciprocated. You don’t really have to take it over 15 minutes if it’s only foreplay, but even then, too many girls still assume boys are still 18-year-olds and are just ready to bang after cunnilingus (which is only true sometimes).
    3) Relating to the amount of time spent, please don’t ask us “are you almost finished?” and have a disgusted look on your face. It makes us feel like you’re doing it out of obligation and it’s kind of a turnoff. If you want us to finish, say something like “you ready to cum in my mouth?” When I feel rushed to ejaculate, I’m forced to dig into my spank-bank and imagine a better blowjob not from you.
    4) As some others have posted- you have to take initiative and be genuinely interested. I can honestly only think of a few times that I’ve finished going down on a girl and hadn’t had to ask if they can give me head for a few minutes before sex. Again, we aren’t always completely eager to stick it in just because we’re hard. You don’t like our absence of foreplay, we don’t like yours.
    5) Some tips: Please, please, please, don’t take any advice from Cosmopolitan Magazine or anything similar. Don’t even take my advice.
    – Just be present; try not to be timid and robotic with it. You can only fit the tip in? Fine. Move your head around in circles or something. You have a good deep-throat? Fuck yeah! Deep-Throating is the best, even if the deepest you can go is about halfway. A little “throat-fucking” is awesome. It shows that you have enthusiasm.
    – One of my favorite things is when a girl looks up at me every once in a while to see how I’m reacting. Again, it show’s that you’re interested in us, but please don’t excessively stare. It’s weird to me at least.
    – I hate to be “that guy”, but I’m pretty well-endowed so opening your mouth as much as you can would be great. Hitting molars isn’t painful, but it’s a little bit intimidating.
    – I don’t know why girls are so reluctant for scrotum love, but it’s a rarity and you’ll likely get an immediate thumbs up if you put them in your mouth, even if it’s for a second. Maybe they smell or taste bad, and if that’s the case, have us shower first. It’s like if we went down on you and avoided the vulva and only spent time on the clit. If you absolutely don’t want them in your mouth, at least grab them while you’re giving us head. They’re not extremely sensitive so you can get a pretty good grip without pain.
    6) Finally- when you want us to finish, here’s the technique that works every time. Open wide and pretend like you’re playing an invisible trumpet. If you can, twist your wrist while you’re doing it. It doesn’t matter if you’re going fast or slow, as long as your mouth and hand are coordinated and the motion is consistent. Trust me- Works. Every. Time. And it’s phenomenal. Also, try not to grip too hard while you’re doing it and if you let us cum in your mouth, go for a few seconds afterwards to make sure we’re completely finished. Having a clogged pipe is kinda painful.

    Writing this list out made me feel pretty needy, but not all of this has to be done to make it a good blowjob. The main takeaway is that you have to be genuinely interested in what you’re doing if you want us to enjoy it. Take the initiative, be enthusiastic, and stay focused on the goal.

    Good luck, urrybody!

    • n8theGr8

      Well written bud. The article was exactly how you said. Uninformative.

  • drocpen

    Believe me when I say that I enjoy “penis worship” at least as much as any other guy out there. Like others have mentioned, there is something of an emotional component missing. Receiving a text that says “I’m thinking about your penis” would hardly make my day. I suppose some guys might like that, but I find it odd.

    However, something like “when you get home, I’m gonna . . . .” Now, we’re talking.

  • Forever His

    Am really enjoying these articles….and yes, the penis should definitely be worshipped for the greatest experiences!

  • Becca.xxx

    Love this!If you don’t worship your partners penis,th learn to!

  • Jai

    As a woman, who is more of a giver than receiver, I can agree one must TRULY enjoy her partner in every way. I love watching the pleasure my partner gets with each and every flick n lick. The look in his eyes or how his eyes roll back in his head. The noises he makes or the way he grabs my hair (PURE ENJOYMENT). I find his pleasure to be more of a turn on, for me, than actually having intercourse. Mind you this isn’t something that every random dick should be privy to, just those who you connect with mentally in order to enjoy the physical.

  • Krissy Jones

    These articles are nice to read, kinda hot….but I think more important than looking for “how to” tips, would be to ask your partner. So maybe you need a “how to ask him what he likes” article. 🙂 I love the whole thing about worshipping the penis, but I don’t know how thrilled my man would be if I did all that before even kissing him. I’m an enthusiastic blower, and always thought I was hitting the target, but the BJ’s now, because I asked, gives him exactly what he desires. I don’t mind taking direction, at all, matter of fact it’s a turn on. I wish could do him now.

  • Giovanna

    Though i agree that the penis deserves more love, I don’t agree that, “a man’s sexuality is centered in this one physical organ”.

    Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy giving nearly as much as my husband enjoys receiving. It makes me excited and more aroused when I pleasure him. However, I like to think his whole body deserves attention, not just his penis. Women say they want their man to be more attentive towards their body, but they often forget a man’s body requires attention, too.

  • Sammy

    Of the 150 or women that I have slept with, I can count on 1…maybe 2 hands (no exaggeration) the ones that are good at giving head….hell, it’s even rare for a woman to initiate fellatio without prompting, and I don’t like to prompt because I want a woman who loves to do it. The number of articles or comments that you hear about men being no good at giving head to women or just basically not being attentive lovers, drives me a little batty when I realise how many women want to be “serviced”. Good head takes enthusiasm, which without, can never be made up with technique. It’s just like fucking…if it’s mechanical and there is no passion, then it’s just boring…I might as well use my hand. I would much prefer a woman who lacks technique but shows enthusiasm, though with enthusiasm comes technique because if a woman loves giving head, she’ll get plenty of practice. In truth, most of the best blowjobs that I’ve had have been from men, because men who suck cock do it because they really love to suck cock not because they feel like they have to.

    Apart from this, the article totally misses the mark when the author says that men are completely focussed on their cocks. My whole body is an erogenous zone with the right lover. I can almost come from having a woman biting on my ears.

    • Vanessa de Largie

      I loved this comment! I agree, women can be unenthusiastic about giving head. I know a lot of women who hate it. I love it.

  • mike_impro

    Omg, i am thinking ‘finally a woman that understands men!’
    I guess this never happened before on the internet for me.

  • Philipp

    Keep loving through all the barriers! That’s what a penis does and I’m happy you see it consciously!

  • J.R.

    I have to agree, this is very far from accurate and very well may be the most elaborate misunderstanding of male sexuality. At it’s best: children’s advice for “how to start exploring a man’s sexuality”.

    We men, just like women (perhaps even more so, because most women actually believe our only interest is our cock and thus have had little to no attention anywhere else) have an entire body which is sensuous, yes the testicles, scrotum, anus, and buttocks are great, but what about our face, head, back, hands, feet, legs, arms, stomach…. what about our emotions? (Which by the way, giving good head and receiving it with enthusiasm is a deeply emotional experience as a man, as is a back rub, head massage, foot massage, ass massage- learn some massage.)

    For the women out there reading this: consider everything that feels good to you, that you would potentially enjoy and understand that we are probably the same. Be bold, and be ok with “not knowing what to do”, ask us what we like, (most men don’t even know what they like because no one has ever asked, just like most women I’ve encountered) and then LISTEN AND GIVE WHAT HAS BEEN REQUESTED (men do the same for your lady) checking in to see if you are delivering the request. Don’t take it personal if you don’t know what you are doing and he lets you know it’s not right, how would you know??? You want us to be a better lover to you? Then be the better lover to us (and for you men out there, be the better lover and she’ll be more inspired to be the better lover to you.)

  • J.R.

    I have to agree, this is very far from accurate and very well may be the most elaborate misunderstanding of male sexuality. At it’s best: children’s advice for “how to start exploring a man’s sexuality”.

    While Adina is right in any lover of a man to need to pay attention to our cocks with willing, joyous enthusiasm (and giving head is essential to a healthy relationship). We men, just like women (perhaps even more so, because most women actually believe our only interest is our cock and thus have had little to no attention anywhere else) have an entire body which is sensuous, yes the testicles, scrotum, anus, and buttocks are great, but what about our face, head, back, hands, feet, legs, arms, stomach…. what about our emotions? (Which by the way, giving good head and receiving it with enthusiasm is a deeply emotional experience as a man, as is a back rub, head massage, foot massage, ass massage- learn some massage.)

    For the women out there reading this: consider everything that feels good to you, that you would potentially enjoy and understand that we are probably the same. Be bold, and be ok with “not knowing what to do”, ask us what we like, (most men don’t even know what they like because no one has ever asked, just like most women I’ve encountered) and then LISTEN AND GIVE WHAT HAS BEEN REQUESTED (men do the same for your lady) checking in to see if you are delivering the request. Don’t take it personal if you don’t know what you are doing and he lets you know it’s not right, how would you know??? (Special note to the men out there too, lower your ego and understand that since you really don’t have a vagina or breasts: how the hell would you know what to do with it if you don’t ask her for feedback and actually listen?) You want us to be a better lover to you? Then be the better lover to us (and for you men out there, be the better lover and she’ll be more inspired to be the better lover to you.)

  • Venus

    I was going to comment that i find it difficult to belive that man are that “simple” but reading the comments i was glad to see so many girls and boys saying the contrary

  • Lizz Hayashi

    Oh ffs, the penis is not the only erogenous zone on the man’s body! I am so sick of sex articles that say this! For many men, his entire body is an erogenous zone too, not just women! My boyfriend can get ridiculously horny just from me stroking his arm the right way! His ARM, for godsake! That’s way more responsive than even I normally am!

  • ShakaZulu

    Giver her a break guys at least shes encouraging and teaching other girls how to give head…

  • Cerejota

    I have a penis. It is not the only center of my pleasure. And turning it into that is a complete turn off. I know many other people with penises who feel the same way. It is important, but not singly. Any one follows this advice is going to leave all but a handful of penises very unsatisfied.

  • Daniel Lenaghan

    I started off rather interested in the articles on this site, and one by one, my interest dwindled, and then this really put the last nail in the coffin. I await the time that people will be treated with attention to their sensual entirety, rather than simplified to a single point. Reductionism is absurd.

    • Cerejota

      I agree fully. This site is full of reductionist, essentialist, “advice”. Its 2014, people…

      • Daniel Lenaghan

        I guess to be fair I came off a bit harsh, because of how much this article twisted me around. The yoni massage article was quite good, the pussy eating article was well-meant but a bit simple (I guess we all start somewhere), and Mark Manson’s ‘Fuck Yes Or No’, while re-posted, is also good, as are a few others.. But I really can’t see how this one works.. but maybe it’s just the simplistic flipside of the pussy eating article. But I doubt any of the authors on this site would reduce a woman to her cunt, so.. there’s that. The brain is my biggest erogenous zone. Everything stems from connection, and it’s certainly possible, and well within my own experience, that very shallow orgasms and hollow encounters happen when an individual’s sex organ is the sum total of the exchange. My two cents. Didn’t mean to be an ass, but really..

    • Lizz Hayashi

      I’m a woman, but I feel you, boys. I know all too well how it feels to be treated like nothing but my vagina exists in the bedroom, and it sucks. So I can imagine for men it can’t be too much fun to be treated like only their penises are involved either, no matter what these dumb articles try to say. :/

  • Shakti

    Fun ideas! If readers want to follow up, there’s lots more great penis worship techniques at http://moderntantra.blogspot.com/2013/10/giving-lingam-massage.html

    Enjoy!

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