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Boysen Hodgson is in the men's transformation business. He is the Communications and Marketing Director for the ManKind Project USA, a nonprofit mentoring and training organization offering powerful opportunities for men’s personal growth at any stage of life. Boysen received his BA with Honors from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst, after completing 2 years of Design coursework at Cornell University. He has been helping companies and individuals design the change they wish to see in the world for 15 years. He’s a dedicated husband and pre-adoptive foster Dad.

“He cleans up after himself. He cleans up the planet. He is rigorously honest and fiercely optimistic.”

He holds himself accountable.

He knows what he feels.

He knows how to cry and he lets it go.

He knows how to rage without hurting others.

He knows how to fear and how to keep moving. He seeks self-mastery.

He has let go of childish shame.

He feels guilty when he’s done something wrong.

He is kind to men, kind to women, kind to children.

He teaches others how to be kind. He says he’s sorry.

He stopped blaming women or his parents or men for his pain years ago.

He stopped letting his defenses ruin his relationships.

He stopped letting his penis run his life.

He has enough self-respect to tell the truth.

He creates intimacy and trust with his actions.

He has men that he trusts and that he turns to for support.

He knows how to roll with it.

He knows how to make it happen.

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He is disciplined when he needs to be.

He is flexible when he needs to be.

He knows how to listen from the core of his being.

He’s not afraid to get dirty. He’s ready to confront his own limitations.

He has high expectations for himself and for those he connects with.

He looks for ways to serve others.

He knows he is an individual.

He knows that we are all one.

He knows he is an animal and a part of nature.

He knows his spirit and his connection to something greater.

He knows that the future generations are watching his actions.

He builds communities where people are respected and valued.

He takes responsibility for himself and is also willing to be his brother’s keeper. He knows his higher purpose. He loves with fierceness. He laughs with abandon, because he gets the joke.

This is the Mature Masculine – the New Warrior – a re-definition of masculinity for the 21st century. By no means is this list complete. You are welcome to come and add your gifts to this community.

By Boysen Hodgson | Featured artist: William-Adolphe Bouguereau


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7 years ago

True love is ourselves so it’s irrelevant what women want. Basically a self sustained positive self lover who doesn’t value winning. A self lover will never cheat on or hurt a women because that wouldn’t build self love. Further along the mastery of true self love he will never base self worth on winning. Energy fields and energy that’s positive. The person who seeks external love will find it and base self worth on it. This is the plague of humanity and the reason for all human suffering. So for enlightenment look inside and love yourself truly and don’t try and win. Why would you care to defeat yourself?

Sara Sawyer
Sara Sawyer
9 years ago

Beautiful article. Describes my father to a tee. I know a number of men who fit most of these ideals, and yeah they are all taken by lovely smart sexy women. I’ve got such a knight as my boyfriend and yeah great men like these aren’t on the market for long. Snap them up when you find them ladies or someone else will beat you to it. My parents have been together forty years–for example 😉

Geoyce Chatman
Geoyce Chatman
9 years ago

I agree. But it’s not only married men. I’ve dated single men who’ve tried to rush me into marriage who did all of the above. In my culture, a trophy wife is one with an education, a prestigious job, and a house.

Geoyce Chatman
Geoyce Chatman
9 years ago

I don’t think you give yourself enough credit, Rick.

Geoyce Chatman
Geoyce Chatman
9 years ago

I fell in love with this guy when I was fourteen. He was a family friend and 21 years old. He actually was waiting for me to graduate from college, but I moved to another state and he married someone else. Now, he’s no longer the man he once was and I believe it’s because he didn’t marry the person he loved. Neither did I. I was engaged a number of times and proposed to by almost every man I’ve dated because I’m stable, but they did not have even a third of these qualities. So I’ve chosen to remain single. I did meet this guy recently, but he’s 20 years younger than me and married.

Mars Castro
Mars Castro
9 years ago

It does seem like an impossible list…This is a total Knight in Shining Armour..In my entire travels around the world I met one F(#*#!$ hot guy who ticks all those boxes….. And I married him..

Geoyce Chatman
Geoyce Chatman
9 years ago
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Geoyce Chatman
Geoyce Chatman
9 years ago
Reply to  David

The onion only writes satire. I can only imagine what’s in this article!

Jessica Klaus
Jessica Klaus
9 years ago

But marriage is immoral!


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