Scarlet Amor is a California based author and relationship coach on Sex, Love and Dating for Spiritual Hipsters. She pens racy (and sometimes hilariously disastrous) memoirs about her enlightening adventures exploring romantic intimacy and modern relationships as a path of personal growth and empowerment with a fun loving, spiritually sexy edge.
The Evolved man is a mythical creature that exists in the dreamy minds of Goddess type women.
For eight years I’ve been calling in a life partner…
Why did it take me so long?
Because I was searching for the elusive “evolved man”; a mythical creature that exists in the dreamy minds of Goddess type women who preach atop sparkly pedestals claiming they are not “being met” by the men they are currently dating.
I desired a partner who is remarkable, like me.
And I would not settle for less until I found “him”; a man who is dedicated to a path of personal evolution, has a high vision of the life he wishes to live, and lives into it every day.
Yeah right, like I am perfect and evolved!
But I am capable and willing to do “the work” to be a better human, so I figured my mate should be the same way.
.. has conquered his own emotional, spiritual and personal growth work and takes responsibility for his life.
#2 A man who..
.. is true to his word, takes action and lives with integrity.
#3 A man who..
.. loves himself so much that he cares for his body, his health, his finances, his home and keeps all aspects of his life in tip top shape.
#4 A man who..
.. has mastered the fine skills of energetic lovemaking, meditation, yoga, ecstatic dance and can give me orgasms with one glance of his eyes.
#5 A man who..
.. has “done the work” to be a better person and has his diplomas from The Good Men Project, Landmark, Tony Robbins, and Deepak Chopra on the wall to prove it.
Well guess what, ladies. Once you find a man like this, you better be scared shitless.
5 Reasons Why An Evolved Man Should Scare You Sh*tless
#1 Your Personal Shit Will Be Stirred
No matter how many Ester-Hicks affirmations you have posted on your bathroom mirror, in the presence of a remarkable evolved man ALL your emotional, spiritual and personal baggage will climb out from the dark corners of your mind.
There is no space in this relationship for you to fall back on old stories of how you were once done wrong by an “un-evolved man” in the past.
Be prepared for your personal shit to be stirred and smeared on your holy mirror and accept that only you are responsible for how you will respond to your “triggers”.
He will hold you accountable and will not settle for your emotional, self-righteous rants.
Then enters Mr. Evolved Man who gets up at the crack of dawn every single fucking morning to meditate, hits Bikram three times a week, and can run circles around you doing handstands while you are still sipping on your Starbucks after your once a month ecstatic dance class.
Wiping the dust out of your eyes, you begrudgingly buy that unlimited monthly pass card for the yoga studio down the street so you can keep up with him.