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Confessions Of A Sensitive Pussy: How To Give Her Earth-Shattering Cunnilingus

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Phoebe Smart
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I believe that improving our sexual and intimate relationships is key to a healthy happy life and we can achieve this through exploration and acceptance of our selves. I therefore want to bring to you techniques and ideas on experiencing orgasmic pleasure and exploring the depths of your own sexuality.

I once had a boyfriend who put in the effort to learn my body and learn how to read my pussies needs – it was like he could speak to her without needing to speak to me.

How easily do you cum from having someone eat your pussy? Does it matter which way they swish their tongue, their pace, their pressure, their sucking motions; can you cum under any mouth that kisses your crotch?

What It Feels Like To Live With A Sensitive Pussy

In my experience I seem to have a ‘difficult’ pussy that is ‘temperamental’ in the eyes of many men. That’s what I’ve been told anyway.  I’ve been told by men that my pussy is the problem getting in the way of making me cum. Even though I know this to be utter rubbish some part of me still takes on the blame for cutting short the pussy sucking venture.

I can cum up to 9 times when I masturbate alone.  I can cum from being fingered and fucked and having my clitoris rubbed.  My body loves to orgasm and my pussy is ripe for sucking, but… I am sensitive. My pussy is delicate and the hood over my clitoris is short making sensations very intense very quickly.

Why Every Man Should Improve Their Cunnilingus Skills

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I once had a boyfriend who put in the effort to learn my body and learn how to read my pussies needs – it was like he could speak to her without needing to speak to me.

At first he had some troubles adjusting to my sensitivity, but after practice and patience (which is hard for many men when they are ‘in the moment’) he learnt how to work with my sensitivity to the point where he could smoothly run my body. It was most impressive. And fun.

The thing that really up-skilled his pussy sucking practice was reading a book on cunnilingus (using the mouth to stimulate a woman’s cunt). I remember the first time we had sex after he had read the book. I will never forget that afternoon; I get a bit emotional even now when I think of it.

We met up in Thailand, it had been a few months since we had seen each other and we were both dripping in desire for each other. But, I was exhausted from an overnight flight and the thought of having to concentrate on not feeling too much sensation from his mouth on my pussy was just out of the question.

I just wanted to feel his penis thrusting inside of me. But he insisted, absolutely insisted after my protest that he should kiss my pussy. I gave in to his request.

How Women Really Like To Get Licked & Sucked

Wow! He started on the outside of my knickers gently nuzzling with his nose and lips. He kissed up and down the rim of my knickers pushing hard with each kiss. Knowing where to be rough and where to be gentle are crucial for good head. He knew what he was doing.

After some teasing, some soft tapping with his mouth on my outer lips and harder nuzzling into my thighs he let his tongue sit over my clitoris; he lay it flat like a plank over the top of my knickers, the wetness from his mouth soaked through as he started gently pushing his tongue around the whole area. Having knickers on shielded my sensitive clitoris so the hood didn’t need to do all the ‘work’, the sensation was just right.

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Finally he peeled my knickers back and wrapped his lips over my pussy. But this time he did something different.

He went from the side rather than in-line with me. His mouth was cupping my cunt but from a horizontal angle, not vertical. This gave him full access to my pussy without putting too much emphasis on my sensitive clitoris, and, AND, the best thing about it was that the rubbing and swishing motions of his tongue and mouth were NOT pulling UP the hood on my clitoris!

For many women the sensation of pushing UP the clitoris is TOO MUCH to start with. It can feel great after you have been aroused and are close to cuming, but going straight in for the most sensitive part of the vagina is a turn off. For me, it feels as though I am being pinched or zapped with electricity – I just want it to end. But if I am caressed into a state of arousal and every part of my pussy is being given attention then my clitoris aches for that touch. Taking time to tease and waking up my pussy in its entirety feels so good.

This is a key point to foreplay, the tease.

I’ve asked a lot of women about their preference when it comes to cunnilingus. Many say that starting out with less pressure and less or no emphasis on the clitoris works best for them. If you have a sensitive clitoris and need less direct stimulation there’s nothing wrong with you.

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  • Jodeye Knight

    What is the name of the book your lover read on Cunnilingus? Thanks much.

  • good article

  • aesthesia

    What is “knickers”?…

  • Store Erotic

    This delightful depiction of cunnilingus was amazing. We totally love the act and the tease factor is so important. Adina love your work. Here is a bit more on the subject. http://storeerotic.com/ultimate-guide-cunnilingus/

  • Laurence Allan

    I’ve been told that I have been able to please women when previous lovers have failed. Most men unfortunately are not used to going slow. I don’t attribute my love-making to any special knowledge just an inclination to take time and to be sensual. I think that some of the problem for many men is that they learn sex as a young person playing with them selves. Young men masturbate very quickly and expect immediate satisfaction before losing interest. I learned to masturbate from a girl and not from another guy or my own efforts. As a result of this early experience I learned to treat myself slowly and sensually and then applied this to the women with whom I’ve been intimate. This gave me a great advantage with women, I take time and focus on the moment not some immediate “score”. Many, many guys just want to make a goal and then go boast to their friends at the pub.If girls could teach boys to masturbate, the men they grow into could pleasure the women they love. One lover said I made love like a lesbian, and this was the greatest compliment I’ve ever received.

    • Paul Brown

      I think this may be exacerbated by pornography and pornification. Because porn is designed for guys to masturbate to, the emphasis tends to be on a dive to penetration and always, always, ejaculation. Young men then have to unlearn the idea of frantic jack-hammering and the fact that ejaculation is often not the best idea during sex. So, I do blame porn in many ways.

  • Maritza

    I’ve never had a man eat my pussy the way my lover does. Not ever. From the first time he ate my pussy he made me cum 3 times. The very first time! & this was a little over 4 years ago. He just knew how to caress my clitoris with his tongue. He stays on my clitoris gently, persistently, patiently until I explode. And as I’m cumming, he continues to lick and caress my clit until I’m completed. Sometimes he will just continue on, and I’m cumming again, and sometimes again. He blows my mind every single time. If I’m menstruating, he will gently stroke and caress my clitoris with a well-lubricated finger. He has never touched me or ate me when I did not cum, whether it takes 5 minutes or 20 minutes he will not stop until I’m exploding. And I’m so comfortable with him, that i can spread my legs and give him my pussy so willingly. Sometimes he will finger my pussy as he eats me and when I cum, his fingers are dripping from it. I get nervous sometimes because it can be so messy, but he makes my pussy just drown and I cannot control it. He is never put off or grossed out by it though. He is into ass, and his ex-wife loved being fucked in her ass. I know he is into ass, too, because his iPad is full of pictures of Kim Kardashian, Nicki Manaj, Rhianna, and plenty of beautiful young women with gorgeous asses. So sometimes when we are making love he will finger my asshole. When we shower, he loves for me to bend all the way over so he can finger my asshole.

    Now we have been together for 4 years, and love each other immensely. Not only is he the best, most amazing and intense lover I have ever experienced, he is my best friend. I love him deeply and feel loved and cherished by him. He is 20 years older than me, & in phenomenal shape, so that may explain the expertise. He is very attractive and can certainly have any woman, including women younger than me. Also, he has told me that he has had sexual encounters with women who “just layed there”, but it may have been too intense to even move or make a sound. I learned that he likes to hear his lover, and I moan through my pleasure, and talk to him very explicitly, moment by moment, how he is making my pussy ache for release, how badly I need to release into his mouth. He loves it, and totally gets it. I don’t think any woman he has ever eaten out has not cum, but I can see where it is terrifying. His tongue is a weapon.

    Finally, what is even stranger is that he has never penetrated me with his penis! I don’t talk on this because I don’t want people to suggest that he is going elsewhere. I just couldn’t bear that, nor does he give indication of that. Some men at his age are impotent ; he is not, and has full erections suitable for intercourse but he will not. He also will not let me such his dick. I will jerk him off and talk dirty to him, and this will make him cum. When I talk to him about this– the inequality that I cum 10 times to his 1 or 2, about why he doesn’t penetrate me or let me suck his dick, or about whether he is going elsewhere, he insists that that is how he loves me and want to cherish and love me into my very soul. And this he does. And it looks and feels just that way everyday.

    I am really glad I found this sexy site, and it is the first time ever I felt safe talking about my own crazy, but loving, intense, and satisfying love.

    Thank you!!

    • 0420196311111

      That man has something to hide. HIV?

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