Wow I Just Squirted: Here Is My Tiny {How-To-Squirt} Guide
About Me
I am the typical girl next door. I am born in Taiwan, live in Bali, am a teacher and love to discover the mysteries of life. I love to fall in love, but I figured this love thing is not that easy I thought it would be. I am on a journey to discover what love really is.That morning my desire of wanting him was so powerful that I became wet inside out. I was on fire.
I will never forget that day. It was the day after a big crazy party. My partner and I both went to bed feeling exhausted. The next day before we were fully awake, we started to kiss and explore each other.
To be honest I’m not the type of person who truly enjoys morning sex. I worry too much about how my partner sees my body in the bright day light without my nice little dress and my faultless makeup. But this morning I told myself “Screw it – I want him and he wants me.”
The morning it happened we tried several positions. The desire of wanting him was so powerful that I became wet inside out. I was on fire. I was living in the moment. I wasn’t thinking about anything but pleasure.
I sat on him with my legs squatting down and my back was facing him. He laid on his back and lifted his butt up to get inside of me. Every time he lifted he went deeper.
I experienced a tiny discomfort in my vagina mainly because of fear. But then again I told myself again: “Screw that”.
The fear did not remove my desire of wanting him and wanting to feel his cock inside of me. I closed my eyes, I found my focus and determination; I wanted to go to a place where I have never been to before. I wanted to feel that special spot being reached.
All of a sudden I felt an unbearable energy exploding deep inside of my vagina.
This orgasm came from a different spot. (All of my orgasms before where from clitoral stimulation & this spot was definitely new). It was so powerful that to a degree I had to pull myself away from his cock. While i was pulling away a liquid squirted from my vagina. My entire body was shaking. It was like my vagina was screaming, saying “Something is coming out, don’t block the hallway”.
I enjoyed this powerful orgasm so much but at the same time I also experienced 10 seconds of shame right after. I looked at my partner and thought I peed on him.
“Well, but it didn’t feel like I was peeing. The water came out from a different hole.” “Squirting” came into my mind. (Sometimes porn can give us better sex education than anyone else )
Wow, I squirted. I’m going to be 35 in January and I just had my first squirting experience.
How lucky I am! I thanked my partner for giving me such a wonderful experience. Then he simply stated, “I should thank you for letting me make you squirt.” And he’s right about that.
I made myself squirt by letting go, by fully diving into the sensation.
After that amazing squirting experience, my partner and I have had a couple more successful attempts. It is like something has opened up inside me. We both now know how to reach that climax. We now know the certain positions to make it happen. And the best recipe is to be free of the mind and relax.
There is a simple rule how to make yourself squirt: Remove the fear, the shame and the worries and just feel the love, the passion and enjoy the moment.
By Sydney
Images by the awesome artist Thomas Saliot
P.s. I am curious: Did you ever had a Squirting Experience? How was it? What tips can you give other women to get there?
P.s. These videos might help you to experience deeper orgasm.. and it might even make you squirt:
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Since when does female ejaculation come “from a different hole?” I’d always read that it was an emptying of the skenes gland through the urethra. Potentially some pee, but if that bothers you, then maybe avoid sex.
So glad this phenomena is coming out of the closet! Somewhere between 10 to 40% of women naturally ejaculate despite the UK banning squirting in porn as immoral, silly prudes. True, it’s *not* the same thing as pee (even if there may be some urine in this liquid pleasure, as it turns out men’s semen also has some urine in it). It’s time to liberate women from any residual shame around squirting… Venus Matters is here to help with gorgeous waterproof and washable mats designed especially for women. Because no one wants to sleep on the wet spot! https://igg.me/at/venusmatters
I am a very juicy woman by nature, but after my friend gave me a vibrational sound healing one evening and my foot fell asleep, he placed his tuning fork on my ankle to “wake it up,” just being goofy. The vibration went all the way deep inside my yoni and REALLT woke it up. Since then, I’ve been squirting like crazy; its insane! Since then, in practicing tantra together, he’s used vibration from his tuning forks directly against my pubic mons, direcing the vibration into my lotus, bringing me to orgasm with lots of squirting, but focusing on my heart chairs makes me absolutely flood the bed!
I am 51 and squirted for the first time last year. After hearing the term for the first time back then ( yes, I’m a late bloomer but better late than never) I decided I had to try and learn how. Husband and I did some research and we managed to be successful Can I just say…OMG!!! It’s amazing when it happens which isn’t every time. After… I am drained, and deeply satisfied. I crave a shot tequila after, its crazy! Funny story: One time while I was on top, I squirted him in his face!! 🙂 We have learned a few things: We keep lots of towels on hand and I have to drink lots of water after. Re-hydration Is import IMO. I am blesses that my husband are still learning lots of fun sex stuff at our age!!!
don’t squirt. do scream though. so I definitely don’t feel like anyone’s missing out. least of all me 🙂
My first squirting experience was quite shocking. It led me on a journey over several years to understand it, and come to a place where I could accept this new ability. It even encouraged me to write a book about it because women just aren’t talking about it and the information available about it is scarce or incorrect (mostly info via porn). I won’t spam you with my book name. Feel free to ask me about it if you’re interested in reading it. It’s cheap on Amazon, and primarily for women just wanting some quick tips to help them squirt. I’m also offering an ecourse on the subject, and orgasms in general. Life experience has brought me to a very different place in my sexuality than I was just 5 years ago. Women should embrace these orgasms, and allow themselves this level of pleasure! R. Leigh, http://www.AuthorRLeigh.com
my first long term relationship and i guess you could say the first girl i really loved was this beautiful girl named Torie. She had the body of a model perfectly tanned skin and the most gorgeous green eyes ive ever seen to this day! and she could not get enough of me! but for the longest time she couldnt fully take me becuse it hurt her and she’d end up bleeding… 0-o it was ironic though because she was my first and I knew I wasnt small but didnt honestly think I was big, she on the other hand had been with around 15 guys and told me I was the biggest. Anyway the first time she was able to fully take me it was such a turn on for both of us and a huge relief for me and her as well im guessing. She had just got home from work and said her neck was sore we were in the bedroom so I told her to get on the bed and I’d give her a massage, started out innocent enough, I ended up turning her on and started kissing her neck from behind she let out a sigh and whispered “I want you now,” “hah oh really?” I laughed as I slid my hand up her shirt, undid her bra, and started playing with her nipple, she let out the sexiest soft little moan and I instantly got hard. I spun her around abruptly and layed her on her back she giggled excitedly as my lips met hers. I slowy moved my hand out from under her shirt and started unbuttoning her pants and slid my hand into her panties which were soaking wet she playfully bit my lip and let out a muffled moan as my finger brushed her clit and moved further south and found home she arched her pelvis pushing down on my hand as though she couldnt wait another second I started slow and slowly increased the pace as her hips started moving more I knew what was coming next “fuck me baby she moaned in my ear,” not yet I whispered back with a teasing smile. As I took her shirt off and kissed my way down from her neck to her breasts teasing her nipple with my tounge before moving down to just above her pussy I stopped and looked up at her to see the her bearing the cutest devilsh grin, then went straight to work. before long her legs were tightening on my head as I buried my tounge in her and her hips began to buck as she started coming “I cant take it any more fuck me!” she shouted. I lifted my head “you sure?” I said teasingly “oh my god please babe!” she begged I flipped her on her stomach pulled her legs off the bed so she was standing and slowly slid it in her now throbbing pussy all the way to my surprise, she clawed the sheets and bit her lip “too much?” I asked, “no it’s perfect” she moaned I could feel her blood pumping to her pussy on my balls as I pulled out and slowly started to speed up. close to the end she was screaming with pleasure and I couldnt have went any harder if i wanted to then as soon as I started coming I felt a hot rush of fluid soak me and push me out of her looking down in time to see it covering the floor and streaming down the inside of her legs which were now trembling uncontrollably as she nearly slid to the floor I picked he up setting her fully on the bed collapsing next to her my hand on her hip as her legs still shuttered both her and I panting to catch our breath. “Did you just squirt babe?!” I asked excitedly “yeah” she mumbled still trying to catch her breath, “I need something to drink” I said “you want something?” I asked, “babe?” nothing “Torie?” I said a little louder this time looking at her “what?” she said looking at me dazed and unaware of what I asked “you ok?” I asked with a huge grin on my face. “yeah i just, that was amazing” she exclaimed still halfway staring off at nothing. “Glad i could help!” I said beaming with pride, she just kind of smiled at me and shook her head. and thats my story sorry if its a little too vivd but I’ll never forget it, it was the moment I felt the most manly I’ve ever felt to this day I cant explain it but the closest I can describe was this primitive pride in how amazing the moment was.
A couple of women asked for input from men, and Randi, I hope this helps part of your question. I have found that most of the men that I know and have read about get extremely turned on by a woman squirting when she orgasms. I can only give my experience but women do seem to be embarrassed by squirting if they are still in the early part of a sexual relationship. We are obviously doing something wrong as a society in order for women to feel this way about something so beautiful. ….and we like to call ourselves the modern era?
I should first point out that my partner and I had known each other years before but in a non romantic way so this allowed us to be a little more comfortable our first time being intimate together. The first time that she squirted with her orgasm, I had no idea that it was going to happen. In this case, I think it’s important to mention our sexual position. She was lying on her back diagonally on the side of the bed and I was standing up in front of her but holding her legs against my chest with her feet over both of my shoulders. For me, I like to feel the softness of a woman’s legs against my chest and there is something special about holding her legs with my hands while pulling them snuggly against my chest that all adds to the pleasure of the experience.
But importantly, it also gives me a better position and angle to be able to reach and pleasure her G-spot with every stroke. Some women may need that in order to squirt through penetration. And when I can take in her beauty and feel her pleasure while watching the poetic motions of her soft elegant breasts, I can also tenderly kiss the inside of her legs and it all makes me want to ensure that every motion and every movement is pleasuring every part of her in the best possible way.
This very first time of being intimate together was quite magical so it did not take long at all for her to have her first orgasm together and she squirted this very first time. The anticipation she felt had her literally gushing and I thought the warm sensation was beautiful but she was apologizing over and over. I tried to tell her how erotic, sensuous and arousing it was to feel her warmth flowing down my legs while I was still inside her but she would not allow herself to believe it. So I told her that I could not wait to feel her next orgasm, and that immediately started another orgasm after just a few seconds but then she still apologized. I knew that that had to place limitations on how deep her pleasure could be and I wanted her to really believe that I loved the experience and was sincere so I went down between her thighs to pleasure her but she pulled my head up and said I didn’t have to do that. I told her that I was now dying to taste her beauty and she finally reluctantly let go. She orgasmed without squirting so I began to use 2 fingers at the same time. This made her squirt with her orgasm fairly quickly and neither of us knew that an intimate experience could be so cerebrally and physically pleasurable at the same time. She then told me she believed me and that became her favorite way to orgasm. In fact, after knowing this, whenever we had sex through penetration, I would go down on her just as her orgasms would start and it would increase the intensity of her orgasms and prolong them, without fail. Somehow, that built up an anticipation for her that created a sexual tension so that when she orgasmed, they were really intense and long orgasms.
Personally, I think it’s also very important for men to learn how to be nurturing when pleasuring their partner. It’s a trait that many women have naturally and I think it goes beyond the physical aspect and has more to do with adding the emotion of caring which heightens the entire experience of pleasure for her. The orgasm itself is so much a part of the mind that if she can feel that her partner cares more about her than his own release, it can be a much more beautiful physical and emotional experience and give her a better chance to experience her orgasm this way.
In my opinion based upon input I have received from women, men need to learn how to be more nurturing and that in itself will influence them to think more about what he can do to make his partner have a more pleasurable experience. Number 2 is that they need to understand that when a woman has an orgasm after receiving oral sex for 5 to 10 minutes, it only happens in porn movies or fantasies. I’m sure there are exceptions. Lastly, if you really care about your significant other and want her to really understand how much you really care about her, then show her. Take the time and make the extra effort to find new or better ways to please her and make her happy. Love is not a noun or a Hallmark card, it is a verb, an action that requires your partici