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“When a man takes his time to caress his lover’s mouth with deep, passionate kisses not only will he be awarded with increased arousal; he may actually awaken a full-blown mouth orgasm for her.”
According to the Kama Sutra, a woman’s mouth perfectly mirrors her genitals: the lips like the labia, the Cupid’s bow like the clitoris and the hard palate just above the front teeth like the G-spot.
When a man takes his time to caress his lover’s mouth with deep, passionate kisses not only will he be awarded with increased arousal; he may actually awaken a full-blown orgasm for her.
6 Tips And Techniques To An Orgasmic Kiss
#1 Hygienic Check
Kissing combines the three senses of taste, touch and smell with each being capable of eliciting strong, sexual responses from your partner. So make sure your teeth are brushed and flossed and your breath is minty fresh.
Also consider using a scraper to clean your tongue as well as an old toothbrush to exfoliate your lips. This will make your mouth a supreme instrument for seductive kissing.
#2 Don’t Forego Foreplay
Just as sufficient foreplay is needed to increase arousal and achieve orgasm during penetrative sex; the same rule also applies to a mouth orgasm. Rather than merely plunging your tongue into her mouth à la French kiss, build intensity and arousal by first softly licking and nipping around her mouth.
Combine love-bites and licks over the Cupid’s bow, into the corners and just beneath her lower lip. Include the sucking of her top and bottom lips. Alternate this with a soft swishing of your lips back and forth against hers and then pulling back to flick your tongue against her mouth.
These techniques will increase blood flow to her lips creating a wonderful tingling sensation.
#3 Pay Attention To The Details
When her lips are swollen and darker in colour, it indicates that she is more than ready for you to take the plunge; much like her labia. Begin teasing her by gently sliding your tongue back and forth and in and out of her mouth.
Keep in mind that success with French kissing hinges on you relaxing your lips and opening your mouth only about halfway.
If you notice an increase in your saliva (this occurs naturally as men become aroused) and wish to avoid slobbering, simply retract your tongue, kiss her lips with a closed mouth and take a moment to swallow the excess saliva before inserting your tongue again.
#4 Spice It Up
When French kissing your lover, loosen your tongue and switch between flicking, lapping and poking. Include the occasional light sucking of her tongue.
An especially seductive technique to try is the swirl and poke. With your mouth relaxed, you alternate a swirling action with your tongue with a poking action.
#5 Secret Little Spots
The roof of a women’s mouth is a highly sensitive but often neglected erogenous zone. It is also directly connected to her G-spot. Begin by French kissing and then simply stretch your tongue up to the roof (palate) of her mouth where you gently rub and flick it.
This technique will certainly make her shudder since it is unexpected, ticklish and quite intense.
Another titillating technique is to run your tongue along the inside of her upper lip. Women have claimed that this move have actually made their knees buckle!
#6 The Perfect Tempo
The best chance of triggering her mouth orgasm is to create a sensual rhythm. With all your probing and retreating, pushing and pulling and soft and rough kissing; it will take no time for the pulsating tempo to move from her mouth to the apex of her thighs; causing her to throb and swell in lust.
5 Ways To Use Your Hands During A Kiss
As you make sweet passionate love to her mouth, where you place your hands and what you do with them can intensify her sexual response.
#1 Play With Her Hair
Playing with her hair can increase intimacy, so consider running your fingers through her hair while kissing her. If she enjoys a little rough play, gently grab her hair near the scalp and pull.
#2 Touch Her Face
Place your hands on either side of her face and softly caress her cheeks with your thumbs.
#3 Stroke Her Neck
Similar to the face, place your hands on either side of her neck and use your thumbs to stroke and tickle her jawline and hollow of her neck. You can also slide your hands smoothly down to her shoulders, massaging them before returning them to her neck.
#5 Caress Her Breasts
Gently knead and caress her breasts. Use your thumbs to tease her nipples with a gentle back and forth stroke. Rub her nipples with your palms. Give them a light tweak. Who knows; you may set off a breast orgasm.
Consider alternating your breast and nipple play with long, leisurely caresses down her sides to her waist and hips.
#6 Rub Her Back And Bum
It can feel especially good when you rub your hands slowly up and down her back while you are kissing her. For added intensity draw her into you.
The more excited your partner becomes, the more sensitive her derriere becomes because blood pools there during arousal, tenderizing the skin.
And the nerve endings there use the same pathways to the brain, as do the ones in her genitals, making it a hotbed of pleasure. Spend time lovingly fondling her sensitive bum. Pay particular attention to the thinner-skinned, lower inside corner of each cheek for that is one incredible hot spot.
Climaxing by mouth stimulation alone may not be as common to women as some of the other magical orgasms but it is certainly possible.
If nothing else, it is a fantastic form of foreplay. And the man who is lucky enough to generate one for his lover may be rewarded further since his partner may then be able to achieve a mouth orgasm solely while performing oral sex on him.