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There is something erotically powerful about knowing how to please yourself. Intuitively.
The first thing to remember is that we are sexual beings. Our bodies are innately wired to experience touch in an intimate way.
The brain is the largest sexual organ in a human being. It sets the stage for a positive self pleasuring experience.
We have to allow what may come up so that we can release it – guilt, fear, all of it. Our clitoris exists solely for pleasure and too many women are not taking advantage of engaging in self pleasuring their flower.
A Good Climax Can Literally Cure What Ails You
It is stress relieving and
it builds up our self confidence and
we are more in tuned with our intimate areas and how we enjoy being touched.
Make The Moment Of Self Pleasure Special To You
incorporating whatever background sounds you may enjoy,
oils that you love to massage onto your skin and
Here Are 4 Unique Ways To Enhance Your Self Pleasure
Don’t feel self conscious about it, it is your time to relinquish all of your hang ups and embrace your orgasmic power!
#1 Self pleasure yourself during a bath or shower.
In a shower our bodies are hot, steamy and naked already. So why not open your thighs and allow the stream from the water to massage your clitoris. I’ve heard of some pretty intense orgasmic experiences from this.
#2 Self pleasure yourself during ovulation.
Ovulation naturally heightens our libido and is a delicious time to engage in some self pleasuring. We are naturally lubricated as our yoni is in receptive mode big time and therefore more than ready for some delicious love play.
#3 Self pleasure yourself in the morning before you start your day.
Due to routine and time constraints, we tend to put lovemaking at the very end of our day when our energy levels are at their lowest. How about giving yourself a boost of the best kind before you even get out of bed!
Just lay there for awhile and allow your hands to massage all over your body: your breasts, your stomach, your inner thighs.. wherever you desire. Your heart beat begins to speed up and your juices begin to flow.
Gently redirect any thoughts that take you away from this moment. Make this moment yours and allow the energy that builds up and explodes within you to radiate throughout your day. Trust me when I say that it makes your day go so much better!
#4 Self Pleasure Yourself In The Mirror
Yes, I said in the mirror! Many of us have most likely made love near a mirror and were able to catch some sweet glances, turning us on even more. But have you ever pleasured yourself in front of a mirror? If you haven’t, you will love it.. it is addictive.
Take a big mirror, open your legs, allow your eyes to gaze over your whole body from the top to the bottom. Allow the inhibitions to fall by the wayside as you lovingly engage yourself in a sensual union with your soul.
Touch your body softly, with your fingertips and tingle with pleasure. Notice how you feel as you tune into the deliciousness of how your body responds.
Your breasts are becoming more sensitive, your sweet nectar is beginning to flow and your breath is becoming more rapid. Look at your reflection as you bring yourself to orgasm. Try to connect with yourself on this level when climax is becoming inevitable. Make sounds, express your longing and know that there are no boundaries to how high you can go!
When I actually saw my facial expression, I knew that I was experiencing one of highest levels of being that I could. I saw pure love on my face and gratification from within.
I once had someone ask me why I would feel the need to self pleasure if I’m in a relationship. I think it doesn’t take anything away from your relationship with your partner. In fact it enhances it, for the simple fact that when you are in touch and in love with your own body you can express that love on a deeper level with your partner.
Much love, Lisa
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