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The Ancient Secret To Self-Love


About Me

Dominique Youkhehpaz is the founder of Self-Marriage Ceremonies, a pathway of marrying yourself and committing to live in integrity, love, and truth–to stop the endless chain of looking outside ourselves for answers and approval, and to commit to sourcing from within all that we long for. A few times a year, she offersSelf-Marriage Unveiled, a 10-week sacred journey online for women all over the world to marry themselves and commit to love, for real.

“Self-marriage is a journey to knowing, healing, and loving yourself and your life.“

How would you feel if your partner judged, criticized, and doubted you? If you were in a relationship with someone who treated you the way you treat yourself, would you stay with that person, or would you leave?

“If we are at war with ourselves, we will be at war with each other.”

Depending on how you answered those questions, you may want to consider marrying yourself. After all, of all the people in the world, you know best how you want to be loved and treated.

What Exactly Is Self Marriage


Self-marriage is not simply a sacred ceremony –  it is a daily practice and a lifelong commitment to radical self-love, self-care, and self-compassion. It is a personal vow to listen to and honor your Soul’s deepest longings and consciously create a meaningful life.

“When we develop genuine love and compassion for ourselves, we create space to feel the same for others.”

Through self-marriage, we create a pathway to inner peace, as we learn to forgive ourselves for our shortcomings and imperfections. And if forgiveness and peace can be found within, surely we can forgive and make peace with others.

3 Unique Vows To Empower Your Life


#1 Love, Honor & Cherish Yourself

Instead of seeking love and nurturing from others, learn to cultivate that love and nurturing within. By doing so, you will enter into relationships with others from a place of fulfillment, overflowing with love. Further still, you will come to learn that you are whole on your own, and that the love you were looking for is already inside of you.

#2 Commit To Living Your Life Purpose

Self marriage is a journey of deep self-discovery where you align with your passion and your purpose – what you are here on this planet to do. Discovering your life purpose gives you the courage to look beyond fear and self doubt, and empowers you to consciously create a meaningful life that is full of love and intention – a life worth living!

#3 Accept Yourself {Flaws and all!}

Marriage to yourself means that you come to know who you are on a deep, intimate level. Through this process of self awareness, you learn to embrace all of yourself, including the parts of you that were once rejected, repressed, or shamed, giving way to a newly connected and whole sense of self. Indeed, you develop an inner knowing that you are worthy of love and acceptance – just as you are.

“When you truly commit to yourself, you bring harmony to all of your relationships, and every other area of your life.”

Your relationship with yourself will always reflect in the other areas of your life. A commitment made deep within is a powerful way to enhance the quality of your health, your relationships – your entire life!

So marry yourself, and say ‘I Do’ to you!!

By Dominique Youkhehpaz

Artist Featured Image: Etienne Adolphe Piot | Edited by Chelsie Diadhiou

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