6 Things {Sexy Consciously Awake} Women Want From Sex
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I am a lover of words and all things true. I am an awake women who will not be held down. I am here to do great things for what other reason is there to live and breathe.“If you want to be the kind of lover women never forget, then it’s time to seriously educate yourself on the art of sex. An erection is not enough to make us feel the depth of your energetic being as a man, nor to connect us to higher planes.”
Contrary to popular belief, women are not less sexual than men, we’re just wired differently.
While men can get an erection and go from zero to hero in less than five minutes, most women need a whole heck of a lot more than that to feel sexually satisfied.
Let’s get one thing straight: women love sex. So, if you ever hear a woman talking about sex like it’s a chore – as if she’d rather vacuum or tidy up the house – she’s having the wrong kind of sex.
Men, do you want to see your woman’s body convulsing in orgasms? Do you want to hear her screaming in ecstasy, so loud that the neighbors can hear?
Then listen up! Women are drawn to capable men who actually care about what they do and how they do it.
Consciously Awake Women Want More Than Physical Sex
“Consciously awake women want more than physical sex. It’s an exploration of connection, energy, passion, and transcendental states.”
You are more than your physical body, which is but one level of your existence. In addition to what you understand as your body (head, arms, feet, organs, etc.), you also possess an energetic body.
Physical sex will only take you so far. It’s surface level with very little depth. This is the type of sex most everyone is having, as it doesn’t require much skill – but it’s boring!
When two people connect energetically – not just physically – MAGIC happens. Energy vibrates at high frequencies as it courses through our bodies, making sex a complete physical high.
“Consciously awake sex transcends basic sex on ALL LEVELS. It’s raw. It’s primal. This type of sex is Cosmic!”
If you really want to experience the depths of your lover, you have to go beyond the physical and into your energetic body. Then you can tap into deeper states of ecstasy and pleasure you once thought existed only in dreams!
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6 Things Consciously Awake Women Want From Men
#1 Emotional Vulnerability
Men who are emotionally disconnected are hard to feel energetically. An erection is not enough to make us feel the depth of your energetic being as a man, nor to connect us to higher planes.
We need to feel energy emanating from your body, and this requires you to open your heart.
MEN! Be willing to dive into the fire of your Soul. Connect to your deeper purpose. Live from this place.
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#2 Passion
Passionate men cannot be underrated. A man who pursues his desires passionately says far more about him as a lover than you can imagine.
A passionate lover will have conscious hands. He is the type of man that looks deep into our eyes, through our heart, and into our Soul. He will listen to her pulse, feel the rhythms of her body, and tune in to her energy.
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#3 Skills
Consciously awake women have no patience for men who won’t invest their time and resources into understanding what it takes to be an amazing lover.
Men who take pride in the skills they have take their time and treat their lover’s body like a temple. These men are the kind of men that understand the alchemy of sexuality.
After all, if you want a great lover, you need to be a great lover!
#4 Variety
“On top”, missionary, and “from behind” are not the end all – be all of sex. Don’t get monotonous. Be creative and adventurous!
Take time to explore what your lover wants, and if you have a hard time feeling her out, ask questions.
Remember: All women are not created equal. We’re diverse in how we feel and what we want. The shape of a woman’s vagina will make certain positions more pleasing for some over others. Learn what your woman loves – which positions work and why.
A word of caution: If you are adventurous or kinky don’t connect with someone who isn’t. You need to choose lovers that have the same level of openness as you do.
#5 Kissing, touch, and the breath
Kissing is one of the most erotic forms of sexuality and can fuel so much passion between lovers. In fact, kissing alone can unlock energetic bodies.
Feel into us. Let us feel your weight and your strength. We aren’t fragile. Let us feel your presence. There is healing and sensuality in touch.
It takes practice and Conscious Awareness to unlock the layers of our bodies we keep blocked most of the time.
Kissing, feeling, and breath can help us release the energetic body. Use mindful awareness to connect on a much deeper level.
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#6 Intimacy
Quickies are fair game… sometimes. There’s a time and a place for it. However true intimacy is not created while in a hurry – slow down!
Let go of the usual focus on achieving orgasm, and instead, feel into the entire experience: the dance, exchange and mixing of energy, the alchemy of two souls aligning in physical ecstasy.
So if you want women who crave you sexually and have orgasms that shake the walls, then try the Consciously Awake Route. You’ll thank me later.
Peace. Love. And LOTS of hot (conscious) sex!
By Kelly Marceau; Edited by Chelsie Diadhiou ♥
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Great sex, transcendent sex happens when both lovers are in a state of openness & trust, allowing their bodies to do what they naturally do.
Honesty is important in sex-play. About what turns you on, whether something is working for you or not, how comfortable you are with what is happening, etc.
The mans’ role is to create a space of where the woman feels relaxation & trust.
The womans’ role is to be open to the mans’ energy & allow herself to respond naturally, wholly.
There is no need for sexual gymnastics to have great sex.
Conscious awareness is the key.
When both lovers are truly conscious & open, their union becomes mystical, awakening.
All the techniques of Tantra & Kama Sutra are to get you to that open, awake state that is, in truth, as natural as breathing.
as long as you are advocating the release of this energy you are going against the holy arcanum thus you are nothing but a black magician. Owned and ruled by demons. Men and women should never reach the orgams nor ever have sex without love. the sun fertilizes the moon but it cant be done with fornication.Everyone who is a slave of the physical spasm is a slave of the demons neither how much you glitter you throw around it
Man is the key, woman is the lock. The woman must feel safe in the arms of a man before she will truly feel open but once she is opened, she becomes truly opened, passionate and loving. If the man wants the best from his lover, it is his responsibility to unlock her heart and forge the unbreakable link between their hearts by melding their hearts together as one. Any man who just expects a woman to give him everything without first establishing that deep spiritual connection will soon grow bored and move on anyway leaving behind another broken and betrayed woman in need of healing, so any man who complains about the pressure the above article places on him lives solely in the physical plane and will never get to feel or experience the true joy and togetherness that we are meant to experience as lovers. I applaud the women who live in this selfish world who can remain open enough to the thought of letting a man get close enough to open their locks and trust them with their hearts.
Yeah, but what do they offer men? Passivity? Submission?
All these demands on men to be more and better and bigger and stronger and passionate…how do “consciously awake” women see to the needs of their men?
I see millions of articles telling men how to reach the soul of their woman…none in return.
I would take it upon myself, but to expect anything is misogyny.
Men are in pain and alone and they are your lovers and husbands and friends and brothers and fathers and sons. You put this upon them, this judgement, to getgetgetget…recieverecieverecieverecieve…expectations upon expectations…burden upon burden…feelings of guilt and inadequacy.
Tell me, what are you doing to earn it?
This onesided view of sex is abuse, sexual abuse, because it is incumbent on men to WINWINWIN…and it is beaten in to us that failure is not an option.
If we have a shitty sex life at home, it’s our fault, our shame.
“You need help with communication”. I don’t need help with communication, I need women to realize that THIS is not awake. This is not conscious. This is selfish. This is abuse.
I have broken women, unintentionally, with the power of my passion. I have left them craving for more and in tears when they couldn’t get it. All because I am so pale with fear of inadequacy, I strive for perfection, over achievement. A fear I will never shake. It’s sickness for everyone.
I have overcome it…I will never be rid of it, but I am now aware of the SEXUAL ABUSE that is endemic to this outlook.
Making your man feel sexually inadequate IS sexual abuse.
Making your boys feel sexually inadequate IS sexual abuse. A life time of it.
We have boys reading this, being programmed that they will never be good enough because of this filth. Trying to fill the pit of loneliness in their body with perfection as a lover. Always tied to the pleasure of their woman. Lost when they can no longer give it, when she turns cold at home…driving men to seek new lovers to regain their strength…
Stop. Rethink. Change this broken system. You be a good lover for a change. You give the men the intimacy you have never given them. Give them a love without painful expectations. You let them know when they are everything you ever wanted. And never read this shit again.
Are you kidding? Every other Cosmo article is “how to please your man.” I applaud this, first one I have seen that is giving the men a push instead of demanding women to be perfect!
I believe you missed the point. Just one cannot “be the good lover” , its a partnership. Both have to be open to energy flow. I don’t think she said submission or passivity once. Its as much responsibility of the women’s as the mans in the “good lover” dept.
First off, I appreciate the honest perspective Adina.
I think it is helpful for men to understand female desires and frustrations (assuming heterosexuality…a mandatory disclaimer, in my opinion). And I agree with you gothy and hannah that the article doesn’t explicitly say anything about passivity.
However, I must concur with fermetano that there is a subtle undertone here that continues the “carrot on a stick” objectification of an idealized (i.e. nonexistent) “consciously-awake” women. Namely, it is the message that the reason for a man to find his purpose and center-of-gravity is to please such a woman. I do believe that if that as long as this is the primary motivation for a man’s evolution, he will simply NOT be able to recognize his center of gravity.
Unless coming from a truly transcendent place, this message is very, very hard for a woman to communicate to a man, as it jeopardizes her own vested desires. She can hint at it, but very rarely ever capture it (i.e. a grain of salt is necessary).
While perhaps outside the scope of this article, it is worth stating what a woman’s responsibility is. I believe it is to step down from her elevated position, that either society or herself places her in, and cultivate the patience and humility to appreciate and inspire, more than demand or expect, the full range of qualities in other men and women in her life.
Taking into account these grains of salt, the points in this article are definitely valuable and sincere, and point to deeper layers of connection that many (though not all) men and women might choose to explore. Thanks again.
Good point, however You making plenty of logical fallacy here ( read logical fallacy as: You trying sneakily sell your toughs as truth which their aren’t and this is not fair).
1. From article :”We need to feel energy emanating from your body, and this requires you to open your heart.
MEN!! Be willing to dive into the fire of your Soul. Connect to your deeper purpose. Live from this place.”
You making logical mistake:
# False cause
You presumed that a real or perceived relationship between things means that one is the cause of the other.
https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/false-cause
There is no word about sex or love in the post in first point (quote 1). Start from this. If You want to have a proper sex You need to start from your emotions. As You probably wasn’t truthful to your women, you didn’t say what you feel, it’s your fault not her. If You are mistakenly in love who abuse You -> she/he abuse You and that’s everything what You can say about it, dot, only one person, you meeting next and next; not all woman are the same, and not most of them – dont make logical mistake again here that most of women, you didnt met few billions of them.
2. Your post: “Yeah, but what do they offer men? Passivity? Submission?All these demands[…]”
## Strawman
You misrepresented someone’s argument to make it easier to attack.
https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/strawman
Nobody attacked and You fight back which is not related at all with post but probably only with your opinion from bad experience with women. You want to show how your opinion is better than this article and You making all logical mistake which are possible to have more readers on your side to assure that your women image which t is truth; for all of them.
3. Don’t make this same mistake again somewhere else like here: You speaking to us instead to
her/his heart/mind – you want to solve your problem then stop playing martyr.
4. You make more then half of logical mistake and people believe you, even i started to believe but notice some mistake after few second . More at https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com
From me:
You little Teddy bear, You don’t need to do nothing for her/him, You don’t need to do nothing, You can go and have a sex as propa You – animal. Common, nobody have right to say to You that You did something wrong – auu. It’s not fair! Coz You are real MAN!
Yes, nobody will say that you are bad with something. You have ketchup in your chick and nobody will say in train that You have it, you going home your women also shouldn’t said it…… Keep more and collect more mistake from live. With guy like this You can only have sex probably.
-> You feel pain, sad, you don’t like something speak with her !!
It’s simple – don’t be afraid. And don’t make again mistake that real man cannot say about feelings and speak about it with his women. Real man do that as their are with real women. Peace and good luck Folks!
I treat others the way I wish to be treated, and give of myself freely and completely. I do not have an agenda. Yet I’ve known women who treated men terrible, giving nothing in return but yet those are the girls that are wanted. I am not ugly at all, I just treat a man very well,, I say maybe we are fishing in the wrong pond buddy, maybe we both nèed to stay with our own kind!!!
Why was my comment deleted? This guy is making derogatory comments about women, so, he must not be willing to give all that you say. I have given all you say, but, have been with men who were not willing to give. I was simple stating that he must be wanting someone that doesn’t want him, hence the pond metaphore. I am entitled to my opinion just like everyone else. This guy spends a lot of time shooting down the women you are covering in your article, someone should tell him to get over himself!! In simple words he can understand, the next person does it but drags it out,, playing his game!!
“Yeah, but what do they offer men?”
You won’t find out until you become worthy of being with one. From some of the other stuff on your post, you (ironically, since you mentioned misogyny as if you aren’t one) seem like a misogynist yourself.
I suggest adding some stroke skills to your arsenal as men if you are interested in becoming trained, accurate and talented with your abilities.Being regarded as talented in the bedroom has completely changed how my lady sees me as a man.